Eat, Pray, Love
Elizabeth Gilbert
1*
"This beautifully written, heartfelt memoir touched a nerve among both readers and reviewers. Elizabeth Gilbert tells how she made the difficult choice to leave behind all the trappings of modern American success (marriage, house in the country, career) and find, instead, what she truly wanted from life. Setting out for a year to study three different aspects of her nature amid three different cultures, Gilbert explored the art of pleasure in Italy and the art of devotion in India, and then a balance between the two on the Indonesian island of Bali. By turns rapturous and rueful, this wise and funny author (whom Booklist calls "Anne Lamott’s hip, yoga- practicing, footloose younger sister") is poised to garner yet more adoring fans."
-synopsis from Goodreads
The above synopsis is what originally sparked my curiosity about this book, but now, having it read it for myself, I can say that Eat, Pray, Love was, by far, the absolute worst book I've read all year, and that the author, Elizabeth Gilbert, is the most self-absorbed and self-indulgent author that I've ever had the misfortune to read. Like many people, she has experienced the pain and shame of divorce, but unlike the vast majority of people, she has the luxury to check out of life for a year and put all of her responsibilities on hold while she goes on a quest to find herself and discover her spirituality. As a divorcee myself, I wish it had been so easy to just check out of my life for a while so that I could have time to gather my strength and regain my confidence. However, as a mother of three, I had to do all this while being a mom and provider and learning who I was as a single woman, which, in my opinion required a lot more strength and determination than Gilbert is capable of. Perhaps my personal experiences have negatively affected my reaction to Gilbert's experience, but I find nothing that inspires or motivates me in the least about this book. If anything, it makes me feel as though I am stronger and better prepared to handle adversity than I would be if I were the type of person who runs away from my problems.